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Astrology and Relationships: Click Horoscopes



When looking at relationships between two people, a conventional chart comparison (synastry) will seek out aspects between a planet in a sign in one person's chart, and a planet in a sign in the other person's. For example, the Moon in Cancer my chart might be in a 120 degrees apart trine aspect relationship with theMoon in Cancer in your chart. This could suggest a nice cosy chummy emotional loving relationship between us. But if our Moons were in different signs or a 90 degrees apart square relationship, it could be a very different story because we could fall out, get huffy, get hurt and misunderstand each other's feelings. This is the conventional approach.

The Huber approach, using astrological psychology, looks at the charts of both people in the relationship, but rather than starting with the Zodiac Sign and the planets, we start with the Houses. What we're looking for are any spatial relationships which might exist between two people. And spatial relationships are important because they are where we share the same physical spaces with each other. These can be found in the 12 Houses of the chart; the houses are where we live out our lives and express ourselves in the environment and the wider world around us. 

At its very simplest, using Click Horoscopes involves looking at the two charts together and finding out if both people share any planetary placements in the same house. For example, my 4th houseSaturn and your 4th house Neptune would form a Click, but we might run into difficulties because your lack of organisation and laissez-faire approach to home and family life alongside my drive and need to be organised in this area of life would probably drive us both rather crazy! So we'd have to work things out between us and find a compromise, which is what relationship is all about.

Planets which make Clicks symbolise areas of life where we'll find things either easier, or more challenging, in a relationship. Two Sunsin the same house/area of life expression could become a power struggle. Two Moons could signify a lot of emotion, two Mercury'sendless chatter and an ongoing need to get a word in edgeways or have the last word, and so on......and of course, it's never as simple as this. 
To get a really accurate understanding of how potential clicks would manifest in a relationship, the position by both sign and house have to be considered, and a comprehensive overview of how to use Clicks is outlined in the current Book of the Month - 


Astrolog 2: Family, Relationships & Health.   

The contents of the book cover exactly what is said in the title.  Included in the book is a chapter on Clicks by Louise Huber, which is recommended reading if you want to know more and try this technique out. The chapter title -  Relationship as a Developmental Process - Click Horoscopes on Three Levels - gives an idea of the content and the subject is covered in considerable depth. 
Here's a basic example of some Clicks which gives an idea of how this technique can be used - but a lot more detail than this is required to give a reliable and valid assessment. I recommend you read the book, and the boooklet on Clicks only available from the APA Bookshop.

Chart A
Both charts have Clicks between the transpersonal planets - Uranus,Neptune and Pluto. Uranus and Pluto are in the 9th house in both charts, making a Click, but they are at different positions by both sign and house, so this has to be considered, along with Neptune in the 11th for both charts. Again, Neptune's position by sign and house will offer fine tuning to the assessment of the relationship.

Chart B



Chart A's 1st house Moon Clicks with Chart B's 1st house Sun. 

Chart A's 2nd house Sun Clicks with Chart B's 2nd house Moon.

What does this suggest to you about the relationship? I'd like to hear your responses please....based on what you've read, do you think they are a compatible couple?

Source: http://joycehopewell.blogspot.ro/2014/02/astrology-relationships-and-click.html

Comments

Anonymous said…
I find the concept of clicks to be really interesting. Also, it makes sense to study the Houses in order to decide whether two people are compatible or not, because each House is concerned with a certain life area/aspect so it's good to know more about how each influences a relationship.
penni d said…
Just learned another new thing by reading my favorite woman of the stars. " Click horoscope". Even the title is cool!
Unknown said…
First time I hear of this too! Quite intriguing.
Anonymous said…
Well, certainly the fact that both parties have Cap risings would help them in that they would have similar experiences in the different areas of life and related similarly to those experiences. The Aquarius Sun and Pisces Sun are kind of "at odds" because the Pisces is going to find the Aquarius too cold emotionally to satisfy his/her fragile ego and the Water Bearer is going to find the Fish too "clingy". The combination chart of these two does have a lot of things going for it, though, as far as communication is concerned.
Unknown said…
It does make sense to have both parties looked at for a relationship.
Nico said…
This is very fascinating, there should be a partner portal where potential partners are found by analysing your birth charts.
Unknown said…
This is very interesting and makes perfect sense! A couple would want to make sure they are compatible by using Astrology.
Unknown said…
This makes sense. Love learning new things.
Unknown said…
It does make sense to have both individuals looked at to see if compatible before embarking on a relationship.

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