This was an unusual Friday, the day started off with a call from a new client who wanted a reading about her dream. In her dream her boyfriend was cheating on her. Because the dream felt so real, she called him when she woke up and argued with him, blaming him for cheating on her in the dream. She kept on emphasizing how angry she was over him in the dream and if she ever dreamed this dream again, she would break up with him. Any dream in most cases may not need to be taken so literally. In this case, a good medium cannot read her dream, but read her relationship. Her relationship showed an impoverishment based upon materialistic concerns. Her main focus as to why she was holding on to this relationship was because this man had purchased for her a $2,000 designer purse and shoes ensemble. He could feel her level of interest and did want a higher connection than just being wanted for what he could do for her. This was explained that if she see saw this man to be nothing more than dollar signs he would only endure this for so long and her dream was a sign that this time was drawing near.
My second consult involved a very happy engagement yet her fiance' did not want her changing her Facebook status to inform people of their recent engagement. He carefully explained to her that they were connected to people that would surely tell his family and he was not ready to tell them yet. My client did not understand and changed her status without his consent by updating her relationship status without there being a link to his name. Mutual friends saw the news and word got back to his family. This man had just called her to end the engagement because she did not listen to him. Why did he end things so abruptly. The reading showed there to be some form of looming problem over his family that needed to be resolved before this set of good news can be announced and it was connected to the illness of one or two family members. The reason for the break up was not that he did not love her but because she breached an important request he felt that he could not be with someone who didnt listen to him when it mattered. I encouragd her to call him back and ask him why he did end the engagement. He did take her call and respond that his father was facing a possible cancer diagnosis that was severe and he wanted to wait until some testing came back to give them a picture of the scenario. He didnt want to appear to his family that he had just gone off and gotten engaged during this time because it would seem insensitive, yet in his heart he didnt want to wait to ask her.
He ended the relationship because she wouldnt stand by him just because he made a simple request. He felt that he did not have to justify his request with a long explanation and he didnt ask her to wait long, but just to wait for now. This was his test to her to see if she could be the ideal partner for him.
My message to my client is, she had no idea he was being tested. It is not a good thing overall when couples are dating and they set up games and tests for people to "pass" to see if they pass muster. Nothing replaces clear communication on both sides. If he wasn't willing to clearly communicate this to you at the time of the engagement and it was such a simple reason in which would have made you wait. Sometimes we set our own-selves up to be hurt because we have expectations of others without clearly communicating our needs and wants.
My second consult involved a very happy engagement yet her fiance' did not want her changing her Facebook status to inform people of their recent engagement. He carefully explained to her that they were connected to people that would surely tell his family and he was not ready to tell them yet. My client did not understand and changed her status without his consent by updating her relationship status without there being a link to his name. Mutual friends saw the news and word got back to his family. This man had just called her to end the engagement because she did not listen to him. Why did he end things so abruptly. The reading showed there to be some form of looming problem over his family that needed to be resolved before this set of good news can be announced and it was connected to the illness of one or two family members. The reason for the break up was not that he did not love her but because she breached an important request he felt that he could not be with someone who didnt listen to him when it mattered. I encouragd her to call him back and ask him why he did end the engagement. He did take her call and respond that his father was facing a possible cancer diagnosis that was severe and he wanted to wait until some testing came back to give them a picture of the scenario. He didnt want to appear to his family that he had just gone off and gotten engaged during this time because it would seem insensitive, yet in his heart he didnt want to wait to ask her.
He ended the relationship because she wouldnt stand by him just because he made a simple request. He felt that he did not have to justify his request with a long explanation and he didnt ask her to wait long, but just to wait for now. This was his test to her to see if she could be the ideal partner for him.
My message to my client is, she had no idea he was being tested. It is not a good thing overall when couples are dating and they set up games and tests for people to "pass" to see if they pass muster. Nothing replaces clear communication on both sides. If he wasn't willing to clearly communicate this to you at the time of the engagement and it was such a simple reason in which would have made you wait. Sometimes we set our own-selves up to be hurt because we have expectations of others without clearly communicating our needs and wants.
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