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I Want What I Want in a Relationship



I had a session with a client last night who was adamant about not being in the kind of relationship he wanted. Upon further questioning, he stated, "If I want a woman just to sleep with her and that is all, that should be it." If I am in something and I want to end it, I will end it"

This isn't being on the path of seeking true love, its controlling what you believe you deserve. One of the things that people do so well is limit themselves. They are only seeking XYZ. They eliminate the potential of something grander and higher coming into their lives.

When you diminish what you believe you can have in a love relationship, you cut off the possibility of attracting true love into your life. Its one thing to be honest and say , " All I want is a physical relationship.", it's another thing to engage a woman in a physical relationship and make her believe that it will lead to more, when in fact, you know it won't.

This is not good karma, and it fosters bringing in situations that omit genuine love and hurts the other person involved.

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